You've Been Trying to Earn What You Already Have

For years, you've been working so hard. Trying to pray enough. Serve enough. Be enough. Wondering if God's finally happy with you or if you messed up too badly this time.

The exhaustion is real. The fear is real. The disappointment in yourself is real. And it's been draining the life out of you.

But here's what changes everything:

God's not waiting for you to get it right.

He's been celebrating you since before you were born.

You're not His project that needs fixing. You're His treasure. And nothing you've done or haven't done will change His mind about you.

Let me tell you about a life game changer: Hearing for yourself the Father’s genuine affection and approval. With this revelation, everything changes!

The same Father who spoke to me at Niagara Falls when I felt like I had severely let Him down—who revealed his love as being more massive than millions of gallons of water plummeting every second—wants to convince you of one simple truth: I can't love you any more than I already do, and I refuse to love you any less. I love you because you're Mine.

That revelation didn't just change my theology. It transformed my entire life. My marriage. My relationship with my sons. My ability to actually enjoy God instead of just serving Him. The freedom to be myself without pretending. I began to love, honor and treasure others from a Source deep within that I had tapped into.

Intellectually agreeing that God loves you isn’t going to cut it. Information alone doesn’t actually change people. Encountering God’s love for yourself will usher you into the freedom Jesus promised you. It’s what you were wired to enjoy!

For twenty-five years, I've watched this same discovery set countless people free to enjoy life with God in a way they never knew was possible. And now I want to show you how to experience it for yourself.

Join me March 11-13, 2025 | 8 AM PST for Treasured: Living From God’s Approval Instead of For It.

Over three powerful mornings, I'll guide you into the exact paradigm shifts that took me from anxious pastor to secure son—and show you the simple practices that can rewire your brain about God's heart for you.

This Experience Is For You If

  • ✅ You've tried really hard to please God and you're exhausted from the performance treadmill

    ✅ You know God loves you in your head but doesn’t seem to be reaching your  heart yet

    ✅ You want to view your life with fresh eyes and receive a spark in your spiritual journey, enjoying a friendship with God where you get to be real

    ✅ You're ready to discover you're treasured, not a project that needs fixing

    ✅ You want practical tools to recognize God's voice of delight over shame's voice of accusation

    ✅ You're rebuilding after walking away from toxic religion and you're ready for something real

    ✅ You need safe space to process without performance pressure or spiritual manipulation

    ✅ You’re ready to remove the wrong lenses you were given that perceived God harshly and use a different set of lenses to embrace the kindness of God as He actually is.

This May Not Be For You If:

  • ❌ You're committed to earning God's approval through perfect behavior

    ❌ You believe God's love must be worked for, not received as a gift

    ❌ You're looking for techniques to get God to bless you instead of discovering He already has

    ❌ You're satisfied with knowing about God's love without  actually experiencing it

The truth is, if you're reading this and you sense a longing in your heart is saying "yes," you're ready.

About Brent Lokker

But Father, I protested, I've made quite a mess of things.

His response changed everything: Son, I love you when you feel like a success and I love you when you feel like a failure. I can't love you any more than I already do and I refuse to love you any less. I love you because you're Mine.

That's when I discovered: You can't earn what you already have.

For twenty-five years since that moment, I've been helping people connect more deeply with the Father’s heart to experience this same freedom. I've seen it transform marriages, heal father and mother wounds, restore joy, and set people free from the performance trap that was killing them.

Now I'm bringing these discoveries to you in a concentrated, powerful three-morning experience.

No manipulation. No pressure. Just safe space to discover what's been true about you all along.

I understand what it's like to feel like you're always one step away from disappointing God or that you already are a disappointment to him.

I grew up in church. I became a pastor because I loved God and wanted to serve Him well. But for years, even in ministry, I worked harder and harder, trying to get it right, and doing my best  to measure up. The joy kept slipping through my fingers.

Then, during one of the hardest seasons of my life, everything shifted.

Standing at Niagara Falls in Canada, watching the massive power of the water, I heard my Father speak to my heart: Son, My love for you is more massive than what you're looking at. Nothing will take you away from Me.

Over the next few days, He led me through one beautiful park after another. Just us. And He said one thing over and over to restore my soul: I love you, Son.

What Others Are Experiencing

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“The knowledge and wisdom that my wife and I have been able to reflect and apply in our lives and in our marriage and relationship and our family has been our biggest blessing. We talk about what we gleaned from your teaching during the week, how can we apply it and reflect on it. It’s been a huge blessing and there’s been a lot of growth in the past few months in our relationship.”

Chris & Aggie

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“When I first began hearing Brent speak, I knew he was onto a new paradigm in God. This is more than a nice idea, this is a new paradigm that has transformed my life. Listening to Brent over the last few years has changed for the better the way I view God and the way I view others.”

David M

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“I started on this journey not knowing what to expect. It’s been such a blessing that I’ve started to believe that I am enough and I am who God says I am. I am loved. I am awesome. I am filled with compassion. I have a different walk now and I love it. I am more sure of myself than ever. Because of the truths you conveyed that were so easy to grab hold of, I feel connected with God’s Spirit and each day is so different now!  I see everything like the blinders are off. I feel loved and I just walk in the peace of God—resting in His love. God put me where I’m supposed to be and I love God for that! I feel so empowered—invincible in Him.” 

Daria S

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“Brent dares us to believe the Father’s deep love is true. He encourages not just a mere understanding but an experience of God’s love towards us. His personal experiences and stories of encounter after encounter with a tenderhearted Father will bring an upgrade to your spiritual journey as you learn to embrace the heart of a son or daughter.”

Paul M

How This Works

Three Mornings of Discovery Live On Zoom

📅 Day 1: Loved Before the World Was Made  

Wednesday, March 11 | 8 AM PST

Discover how to get off the performance treadmill that’s getting you nowhere and sapping your joy.  Understand the simple phrase I said out loud hundreds of times until it rewired my brain—and how you can use it too. Understand the treasure vs. project paradigm that ends performance anxiety forever. Learn how to allow yourself be genuinely loved by your heavenly Father who has always wanted you. 

What you'll discover: The exact moment everything shifted for me at Niagara Falls and what God wants you to know right now.

📅 Day 2: Heart Connection With A Father you Can Trust

Thursday, March 12 | 8 AM PST

Discover the simple invitations that keep you connected to His heart. Learn about the ways God is different from any earthly parent and how your heart can tap into your heavenly Father to fill the legitimate needs you have. Be set free with the real awareness there is nothing you can do or fail to do for the Father to give up on you. Discover why you measure up not because you tried harder but because you were always enough. 

What you'll receive: Living securely with your authentic sonship/daughtership fully restored by your heavenly Father.

📅 Day 3: Known and Celebrated-or-Breaking the Lie of Shame

Friday, March 13 | 8 AM PST

Learn the difference between shame’s voice and God’s voice. Be relieved that your Father knows everything about you which elicits compassion and restoration, not anger and punishment. Learn how to maintain awareness of God's delight even when life gets hard. Position yourself for the transformation that comes as you embrace the truth  you're treasured.

What you'll implement: A clear pathway to living from belonging instead of striving for acceptance.

Three mornings. Three discoveries. ONE outcome: You'll experience God's love and your transformation will commence

Three mornings. Three discoveries. ONE outcome: You'll experience God's love and your transformation will commence.

🔑 The "Niagara Falls Moment" Framework
 How to recognize when God is speaking His love over you (even when you feel like a failure) and the simple practice that shortens the gap between knowing and feeling.

⚡ Tools to Recognize God's Voice vs. Shame's Voice
Recalling this one statement from God in the Genesis account whenever I hear "God is disappointed in you" that immediately expose the lie.

🎯 Clarity on Where You're Stuck
 Understand exactly which performance trap you're caught in and the specific paradigm shift that sets you free.

🔥 Fresh Encounter With God's Heart
 Experience His delight, instead of  just knowing about it. Feel the relief of resting in approval you didn't earn.

🌟 Confidence You're Treasured
 Stop wondering if you've done enough. Start knowing you measure up not because you tried harder but because you always did.

🔑 The Treasure vs. Project Paradigm
 Learn why God's not trying to fix you and what He's actually doing instead. This alone will get you off the treadmill.

This isn't just information. This is transformation.

What You'll Walk Away With

What You Receive When You Register

📺 3 LIVE Morning Sessions with Brent
 60 minutes each morning. Teaching, processing time, and optional encounter practices. These sessions will gently guide you into experiencing God's love in practical, tangible ways.

📧 Complete Access Package
 All session links delivered to your inbox. Reminder emails so you don't miss anything. Simple invitations to try between sessions (never required, always optional).

🎥 7-Day Replay Access
 Can't make it live? You have 7 days to watch the replays. But I encourage you to join live—there's something powerful about being present with the community in real time.

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Brent is a bridge to help you cross from intellectually knowing the truth of God’s love and affection to actually experiencing and expressing it. The discovery revealed in his messages has the power to forever transform whoever receives it. Prepare for an encounter with your Abba!

Caleb K

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Brent’s message is an authentic expression of his personal journey and intimate relationship with the Father. His powerful revelations lead you beyond learning and into a life-giving embrace with the transforming love of God.

David C

Frequently Asked Questions

  • This experience is built specifically for people carrying church hurt and religious baggage. I've structured the space for safety in ways most Christian programs don't think about. No manipulation. No pressure. Just honest teaching and optional practices that honor your pace.

  • Yes and no. The 3-day experience stands completely on its own. You'll receive massive value whether you buy anything or not. At the end, I'll invite you to join my year-long mentorship TREASURED if it feels right for you. But there's zero pressure. Your "no" is as valid as your "yes."

  • You get 7 days of replay access. However, I strongly encourage live attendance. There's something powerful about processing together in real time with others on the same journey.

  • I've learned to create space that's safe for people If I go into places in my teaching where I encourage you to experiencing transforming moments with the Lord, it will always be done with gentleness and will never be manipulative. And remember, these ways of encountering God’s heart will always be optional. You engage at your own pace, or not at all if that’s what you choose.

  •  The 3-day experience is completely FREE. After registration, you'll have the option to join my year-long mentorship TREASURED, but the core experience is yours at no cost.

Your Discovery Awaits

You weren't created to spend your life on a performance treadmill.

You weren't designed to fear God's disappointment year after year.

You weren't meant to know about His love without ever experiencing it.

You were created to be treasured. To rest in approval you didn't earn. To enjoy God instead of just serving Him.

The Father's love for you is real. His delight in you is accessible. Your freedom is waiting.

March 11, 12, 13 | 8 AM PST Daily